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//-->100 Great Sex Gamesfor CouplesbySteve & Angela LucasFeaturing 33 games and 67 exciting variations!All Rights Reserved. Copyright © 2005 Steven C. Lucas and Angela F. LucasNo part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, graphic, electronic, or mechanical, includingphotocopying, recording, taping or by any information storage or retrieval system, without the permission in writing from thepublisher.Printed in the United States of America1Table of ContentsIntroduction.............................................................................................................................3Game #1 – Easy as ABC .........................................................................................................6Game #2 – Multiple Choice.....................................................................................................7Game #3 – Twenty Questions..................................................................................................8Game #4 – Word for Word......................................................................................................9Game #5 – Waiter’s Words ...................................................................................................10Game #6 – Freeze Tag...........................................................................................................11Game #7 – Read between the Lines .......................................................................................12Game #8 – Concentration ......................................................................................................13Game #9 – Commercial Chaos ..............................................................................................14Game #10 – Stress Chess.......................................................................................................15Game #11 – Strip Poker ........................................................................................................16Game #12 – Magic Numbers .................................................................................................17Game #13 – High Card..........................................................................................................18Game #14 – Movie Mimic.....................................................................................................19Game #15 – Time Trial .........................................................................................................20Game #16 – Taste Test ..........................................................................................................21Game #17 – Sport Shopping ..................................................................................................22Game #18 – Bull’s-Eye .........................................................................................................23Game #19 – Lingerie Toss.....................................................................................................24Game #20 – Hot or Cold .......................................................................................................25Game #21 – Strip Horse ........................................................................................................26Game #22 – Sensual Sculpture ..............................................................................................27Game #23 – Buy a Vowel......................................................................................................28Game #24 – Auction .............................................................................................................29Game #25 – In the Pocket......................................................................................................30Game #26 – Music Minute ....................................................................................................31Game #27 – Music Message..................................................................................................32Game #28 – Scavenger Hunt .................................................................................................33Game #29 – Story Time ........................................................................................................34Game #30 – Shower Power ...................................................................................................35Game #31 – Chat Room ........................................................................................................36Game #32 – The Marathon ....................................................................................................37Game #33 – Sensual Sentences..............................................................................................382ForewordI receive at least 50 books or manuscripts each year from authors or publishers, asking me towrite a foreword, provide a review or to give them advice to help them get published. Honestly,most go straight to the trash can or the recycle bin. Most are mediocre at best but some of theserelationship books are so bad (potentially damaging) that I sometimes wish that they could bebanned.Every once in a while I discover a great manuscript that I think to myself “I wish I had writtenthat”. When I read Steven and Angela’s collection of sex games I was impressed by theirhandling of this potentially risky subject. Their games are fun, exciting and adventuresome. Butunlike other books I have seen on the subject, they steer away from risky and harmful games andvariations.I’m delighted to endorse this ebook as a potentially powerful tool to increase the passion andintimacy in marriages.Michael WebbBest-selling author and Founder ofwww.TheRomantic.com3Introduction100 Great Sex Gamesis for couples looking to add a bit of flavor and excitement to their sexlives. Unlike most books offering suggestions for sex, this one is not loaded down withpredictable variations of dress-up or fantasy. Instead, we’ve taken ordinary games that mostpeople know and have played and tweaked the rules a bit. Some games require minor props,some more elaborate preparation, and some require no preparation or props at all.For couples who are inhibited, these games will help move them past their inhibitions by lettingthe rules of the game dictate their actions, removing the pressure to be creative. Uninhibitedcouples will find ideas for stoking the fires of passion to burn just a little bit hotter. Either way,every couple will discover new and creative variations that will bring laughter, joy, and if allgoes well, a lot of great sex into their lives.IntimacyIf you are still reading this and haven’t skipped forward to find the perfect game to put you onthe receiving end of white-hot passion, then I congratulate you. Clearly you understand that greatsex is about more than just physically connecting and getting your needs met. In fact, I wouldsuggest that for sex to be truly great, it must include intimacy on three levels: spiritual,emotional, and physical.Spiritual IntimacyFew people ever give thought to spiritual intimacy, but the ones who do discover that building afoundation of trust and respect can add a new dimension to sex. Without a spiritualconnectedness, the soul is left to wonder if it is just being used. One wife, lacking a deeply feltconnection with her husband, observed that everything she offered him could be foundelsewhere. She challenged him: “I’m just a maid, a nanny, and a prostitute. What do I offer youthat you can’t buy?”It doesn’t necessarily feel romantic or intimate to talk about spiritual issues, but the results ofspiritual intimacy will be a heightened passion and more deeply felt romantic connection. Thekey to building spiritual intimacy is to be intentional in discussing issues of the heart, and doingit in such a way that it doesn’t come across as disingenuous or manipulative. To achieve this, webegan years ago to have lunch once a week in a restaurant, and during our time to focus on thespiritual dimension of our lives. We talk about our faith, our family, and our dreams and goals.And believe it or not, we even talk about sex. The public nature of our setting precludes us fromgoing at it right there. Without that pressure, we are able to be more open and honest with eachother about how we feel and what we think.Emotional IntimacyIn addition to our spiritual discussion, we also talk about emotional issues at our weekly lunch.This adds to the level of emotional intimacy that we feel. Emotional intimacy might be bestunderstood as the friendship quotient of your relationship. How much fun are you having as acouple?4
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